DAMASCUS: Six months after Maha’s husband was killed in Syria’s bloody civil war, the mother-of-two took a decision that has become increasingly common — she became a second wife.
“After my husband died, I was alone with my children and it was very difficult,” the 31-year-old told AFP by phone from an area near Damascus that has seen heavy combat between government and rebel forces.
“My cousin suggested we get married, and now I live with his wife and children. It was a difficult decision because his wife was a friend of mine,” she said.
With thousands of Syrian men dying on the front lines of the conflict that began in March 2011, and others forced into exile or simply disappearing, the rates of divorce and polygamy in Syria are on the rise.
According to official figures, polygamous relationships accounted for 30 percent of marriages registered in Damascus in 2015, up from just five percent in 2010.
“We have more women than men here. Four friends and I decided to take widowed women as second wives to protect their reputations,” explained Mohammed, Maha’s new husband.
In Syria, the personal status law for Muslims, which is applied to issues such as marriage, divorce and inheritance, is derived from religious law.
The imbalances created by war have prompted religious authorities to be more lax.
“Many men are dead, missing or have gone abroad,” said judge Mahmud Al-Maarawi, who heads the religious court that oversees personal status issues for Syria’s Sunnis.
“So there are more women than men, and the solution from a legal and religious point of view is polygamy,” he told AFP.
“The tribunals bypass the restrictions put in place by law to allow a man to take a second wife... It has solved many problems.”
For many women, the decision to wed an already married man is born of economic hardship.
“Women who in ordinary circumstances would have refused are now agreeing to marry a man who is already married who can provide for them and give them a sense of protection,” said psychologist Leila Al-Sherif.
Abu Adnan’s second wife was a tenant at his large house in the Old City in Damascus. “She couldn’t pay her rent, so I decided to marry her. It was better than putting her on the street,” the 46-year-old said.
“My first wife accepted because we haven’t been able to have children. She hopes I’ll be able to have a son.”
A mother of five, Sabah Al-Halabi’s “first husband abandoned me and my children after losing his job” early on during the conflict.
To provide for her two unmarried children, Sabah found a husband 24 years her senior who already has one wife. “I married Mamduh, who is 68, because I wanted a better life for my children,” she said, as she waited to register her marriage in Damascus.
The war has also led to an increasing number of divorces, with authorities recording 7,000 cases in 2015, a 25 percent increase from 5,318 in 2010.
“Many couples are forced to live with their families for economic reasons,” creating pressure on marriages, said Maarawi.
“There are also disputes between couples when one wants to emigrate and the other is afraid of the journey or being far from their family,” he added.
In some cases, husbands have demanded divorces after meeting women overseas, or wives have divorced husbands who have left them behind.
Syrian law allows a wife to divorce if she can prove her husband has been absent for at least a year, but 43-year-old Fawziyeh waited three years before beginning proceedings against her husband.
He left for Sweden as a refugee, where he was meant to complete the paperwork for the family to reunite.
But after waiting three years, living with their three children at her parents’ home, she’d had enough.
“I divorced him. The wait was difficult and now I’m free to marry whoever I want.”
Polygamy ‘protects women’s reputation in war-torn Syria’
Polygamy ‘protects women’s reputation in war-torn Syria’
Netanyahu appoints Yechiel Leiter as new ambassador to US
“Yechiel Leiter is a highly capable diplomat, an eloquent speaker, and possesses a deep understanding of American culture and politics,” Netanyahu said in a statement.
His appointment was also welcomed by Yisrael Ganz, the head of the Yesha Council, an umbrella organization representing councils of Jewish settlements in the Israeli-occupied West Bank, a territory Palestinians want as part of a future state.
Ganz said Leiter, who lives in the Gush Etzion settlement area, as “a key partner in English-language advocacy for Judea and Samaria,” a name used by many Israelis for the West Bank, which Israel captured in the 1967 Middle East war.
Leiter’s appointment came three days after Donald Trump’s election to a second term as US president, celebrated by many Israelis because of his strong support for Israel.
As well as serving in the finance ministry, Leiter also held positions as deputy director general in the Education Ministry and acting chairman of the Israel Ports Company.
His son was killed last year in the Gaza war against Palestinian militant group Hamas while serving with the Israeli military.
Jordan’s King Abdullah returns home after meetings with King Charles, Keir Starmer during UK visit
- King Abdullah met Starmer at Downing Street on Wednesday to discuss Middle East crises
- Meeting with Charles III marked the Jordanian monarch’s silver jubilee — 25 years since ascending to the throne
LONDON: King Abdullah II of Jordan returned home on Friday following a working visit to the UK.
The visit this week featured key engagements with King Charles III and UK Prime Minister Keir Starmer.
Earlier in the visit, King Abdullah met Starmer at Downing Street on Wednesday, where discussions reinforced the close ties between the two kingdoms, Jordan News Agency reported.
They also called for an immediate ceasefire and stronger efforts for de-escalation and humanitarian aid in Gaza.
They warned that Israel’s ban on UNRWA activities could worsen the humanitarian crisis and highlighted the need to address violence in the West Bank.
The King emphasized the UK’s crucial role in seeking resolutions to regional conflicts and achieving a just, comprehensive peace based on a two-state solution, JNA added.
King Abdullah then met Charles at Windsor Castle on Thursday.
The occasion marked the Jordanian monarch’s silver jubilee — 25 years since ascending to the throne — and King Charles commemorated the milestone by presenting King Abdullah with a specially engraved silver beaker, featuring the ciphers of the king and queen.
The formal welcome at Windsor began with the Jordanian monarch receiving a royal salute, accompanied by the Jordanian national anthem.
Major Edward Emlyn-Williams, the captain of the guard, invited King Abdullah, in Arabic, to inspect the guard, followed by a military march-past.
The two kings exchanged conversation as they interacted with the guards before proceeding into the castle for tea.
The long-standing relationship between the two monarchs was highlighted by King Charles’s five visits to Jordan as Prince of Wales, most recently in 2021. King Abdullah’s last visit to Charles took place at Buckingham Palace in November 2022.
King Abdullah’s visit comes months after his son and heir, Crown Prince Hussein, and Crown Princess Rajwa welcomed their daughter, Princess Iman, in August.
Britain’s Prince and Princess of Wales attended the wedding of Hussein and Rajwa in June last year.
Israel says it will re-open crossing into Gaza as pressure builds to get more aid in
- Aid agencies have warned of a gathering humanitarian crisis in the north of the enclave
JERUSALEM: The Israeli military said on Friday it was planning to reopen the Kissufim crossing into central Gaza to increase the flow of aid into the southern end of the Gaza Strip.
The move comes amid growing international pressure on Israel to get more aid into Gaza, where aid agencies have warned of a gathering humanitarian crisis in the north of the enclave, where Israeli troops have been conducting a major operation for more than a month.
The new crossing would be opened following engineering work over recent weeks by army engineers to build inspection points and paved roads, the army said.
Last month, US Secretary of State Antony Blinken and Defense Secretary Lloyd Austin wrote to Israeli officials demanding concrete measures to address the worsening situation in the Palestinian enclave.
The letter, which was posted to the Internet by a reporter from Axios, gave the Israeli government 30 days to improve the humanitarian situation in Gaza.
Among the demands included in the letter was for the opening of a fifth crossing into Gaza.
Sudan army govt accuses paramilitaries of causing 120 civilian deaths in 2 days
- The Janjaweed militia (paramilitaries) committed a new massacre in the town of Hilaliya
PORT SUDAN: The Sudanese foreign ministry accused paramilitaries late Thursday of causing at least 120 civilian deaths over two days in Al-Jazira state, reportedly in attacks involving gunfire, food poisoning and lack of medical care.
“The Janjaweed militia (paramilitaries) committed a new massacre in the town of Hilaliya in Al-Jazira state over the past two days, resulting in 120 martyrs so far, killed either by gunfire or due to food poisoning and lack of medical care affecting hundreds of civilians,” the ministry of the army-backed government said in a statement obtained by AFP.
Yemen’s Houthi militants shoot down what they say was a US drone as American military investigates
- The US military acknowledged the videos circulating online showing what appeared to be a flaming aircraft dropping out of the sky
- The Houthis claimed to have downed an American MQ-9 Reaper drone
DUBAI: Yemen’s Houthi militants shot down what they described as an American drone early Friday, potentially the latest downing of a US spy drone as the militants continue their attacks on the Red Sea corridor.
The US military acknowledged the videos circulating online showing what appeared to be a flaming aircraft dropping out of the sky and a field of burning debris in what those off-camera described as an area of Yemen’s Al-Jawf province. The military said it was investigating the incident, declining to elaborate further.
It wasn’t immediately clear what kind of aircraft was shot down in the low-quality night video. The Houthis, in a later statement, claimed to have downed an American MQ-9 Reaper drone.
The Houthis have surface-to-air missiles — such as the Iranian missile known as the 358 — capable of downing aircraft. Iran denies arming the militants, though Tehran-manufactured weaponry has been found on the battlefield and in sea shipments heading to Yemen for the Shiite Houthi militants despite a United Nations arms embargo.
The Houthis have been a key component of Iran’s self-described “Axis of Resistance” during the Mideast wars that includes Lebanon’s Hezbollah, Hamas and other militant groups.
Since Houthis seized the country’s north and its capital of Sanaa in 2014, the militants have shot down MQ-9 Reaper drones in Yemen in 2017, 2019, 2023 and 2024. The US military has declined to offer a total figure for the number of drones it has lost during that time.
Reapers, which cost around $30 million apiece, can fly at altitudes up to 50,000 feet (15,240 meters) and have an endurance of up to 24 hours before needing to land. The aircraft have been flown by both the US military and the CIA over Yemen for years.
The Houthis have targeted more than 90 merchant vessels with missiles and drones since the Israel-Hamas war in the Gaza Strip started in October 2023. They seized one vessel and sank two in the campaign that has also killed four sailors. Other missiles and drones have either been intercepted by a US-led coalition in the Red Sea or failed to reach their targets, which have also included Western military vessels.
The militants maintain that they target ships linked to Israel, the US or the UK to force an end to Israel’s campaign against Hamas in Gaza. However, many of the ships attacked have little or no connection to the conflict, including some bound for Iran. The tempo of the Houthi sea attacks also has waxed and waned over the months.
In October, the US military unleashed B-2 stealth bombers to target underground bunkers used by the Houthis.